“We are out of options...” This is NOT the kind of thing you want to hear from your doctor when you are having a rough year health-wise. Good grief… it was only March! I can’t say this hasn’t happened before because unfortunately it did.
This time it was
an upper respiratory infection and pneumonia that knocked me down quickly. My body just wasn’t recovering like it
should. The on-going sickness only
exasperated the autoimmune disease (read more details about my struggle here). I was in
the midst of a flare up that wasn’t getting better!
My neurologist
had ordered the traditional go to IVIG treatments to get me back to normal
quickly. When they didn’t work, we
jumped to the next best step to re-charge my immune system in a sense...
steroid treatments. Nothing was working
and I only seemed to get worse. Muscle
weakness, fatigue, trouble speaking, the list goes on. I was in a full blown flare up. Yay me!
I’m thankful I
have an aggressive neurologist who cares deeply about his patients. He researches alternative options, talks to
specialists, and weighs all options before presenting what he feels would be
best. My option at this point was to
have a treatment I had six years ago.
At that time, I was bedridden most of the day with this dreaded illness
with no quality of life. The risks
involved in the treatment seemed like a sensible trade for the hope of
better days ahead.
HOPE… I like that
word. For me, it means there is
“potential” for something good to happen.
That’s better than despair… which means to lose all hope. I’d rather not despair the days ahead
for me. “To lose hope”… where did hope go? Was it ever there? Where did we lose it?
I have faced a
lot up’s and down’s in my lifetime. Many
of which could have stripped me of all hope, but they didn’t! They don’t!
Why? Let me tell you my secret… I choose to put my HOPE in God instead of
dwelling in a pit of despair. Have
you ever been there before? It’s
really hard to climb out of that pit when everything is going wrong in your
life. Believe me, I know!
I remember a
particularly dark season where I got to the end of myself health-wise and I
didn’t know what else to do. I was so
sick and nothing was working. I was skin
and bones, not getting better, and I had no options at the time to do anything
else. There were no words. I cried out to God broken inside... nothing
would come out of my mouth. All I can
say is that God met me right where I was and helped me keep pushing forward…
trusting Him all the way. I read the
verse below recently and it describes what I felt at that moment to a tee. This speaks volumes to my heart.
“Strength in my
soul”… It was a strength
I didn’t possess on my own. To be
completely transparent with you (if I haven’t already), I don’t know how I made
it through this season. It really felt
like God was carrying me the whole way.
He was faithful!!!
For
those of us who might feel stuck in that “Pit of Despair”. The verse below sounds
like someone is giving themselves a pep talk.
We can see it all the way throughout chapter 42. I love how it says in verse 5… “YET I
will praise him.” This person is
believing for better days ahead… so am I!
Psalm 42:5 (NIV)
“Why, my soul, are you downcast?
Why so disturbed within me?
Put your hope in God,
For I will yet praise him,
My Savior and my God.”
Instead of choosing
to dwell in a pit of despair… Put your HOPE in God! He has always been my ever present, constant
source of strength to pull me through... and He will be that for you!
When I faced
difficulties or challenging seasons of life, I could have walked AWAY
from God and blamed Him like others do and have, but I didn’t. I choose to run TO Him in the midst of
my struggles and I have never, ever regretted that decision. His peace has been immediate as He has
carried me through some of my darkest seasons of life.
Here we are again
after six years. The treatments I had before
put me into remission for 4 years which was awesome! I felt like I came back to life in a
sense! I had a fresh perspective and a
new way of living. I determined to live
differently from that day forward. But…
as I think back over the past six years (4 really good and 2 struggling
health-wise), I wonder. Has anything
changed? What have I accomplished in my
six years?
I’ve been very
introspective lately. I’ve written
special letters to my family. In case
my health declines drastically and those so called “risks” involved with this
treatment conquer me, I want to be ready.
I’ve pondered my life and asked myself a lot of questions.
Has my life
impacted others for good? Are they better
for having known me? Am I spending more
time “living” life (making memories) instead of just “doing” things (I have
been known to get lost in a ‘to do' list… LOL)? Have
I created memory making moments with my family?
Do they know I love them fiercely?
Have I been intentional? Have I done what God would have me
do? Have I reflected Him well to those
around me? Am I pointing people to Jesus
by my life choices (actions and reactions)?
These are just a
few of the many questions rolling around in my head lately. Today I finished my last treatment (or
infusion). Now it’s all about the
recovery process. I am infused with
HOPE! Hope… that these treatments will
lead me right into remission. There is
“potential” with these treatments to go into an indefinite remission. Will you pray with me that happens?
Have you lost
your HOPE and fallen into a “Pit of Despair”? Put
your hope in God, friend! We have YET to praise Him! I’m believing it, do
you?
Living to leave a
legacy,
Julie
